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You understand the pattern
You can explain exactly why you do it... and still catch yourself doing it again.
ReFind You
You don’t need to be broken to want more.
More joy. More connection. More life. More you.
No pressure. No pitch. Just a real conversation.
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35 people
Two-part experience
Weekly integration calls
Maybe this feels familiar
You can understand yourself really well... and still want something to change.
ReFind You is for people whose lives may look completely fine from the outside, but who know there are moments, patterns, or parts of themselves they want to experience differently.
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Life is good, but there’s more
Nothing has to be falling apart. You can be grateful for your life and still want more joy, peace, connection, or honesty in it.
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You show up for everyone
Work. Family. Friends. Responsibilities. You are good at being there for people. Somewhere in all of it, you may have gotten harder to find.
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You want more choice
Not a perfect new version of yourself. More space to choose how you actually want to respond when the old pattern shows up.
You don’t need a crisis to want more of your own life.
Talk With Our Team
Sometimes curiosity is enough.
The ReFind You Experience
This is not a weekend you attend and forget.
ReFind You is built as one complete experience. You begin together, take what you discover back into real life, then return to go deeper with a room full of people who already know your name.
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Begin
Part 1
Three immersive days designed to help you notice the patterns, reactions, stories, and choices shaping the way you are living right now.
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Live it
Integration
For about a month, you take the work home. You practice in the relationships, conversations, and moments where your old patterns actually show up.
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Return
Part 2
You come back for three more immersive days with context, real-life experience, and a deeper understanding of where you still want more choice.
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Stay connected
Community
Part 2 is not the end of the relationship. Graduates become part of the ReFind You community and can return to staff future trainings at no additional cost.
One experience. Two immersive weekends. Real life in between.
No hidden next level. No surprise program waiting at the finish line. The complete ReFind You experience is built into one journey.
Ready to see what is coming up next? Take a look at the upcoming ReFind You dates and choose the next step that feels right for you.
Real work. Real change. Real people.
This is what ReFind You actually looks like.
Small rooms. Real conversations. Laughter, reflection, connection, and people actually knowing your name. ReFind You is not something you sit back and watch. You are part of the room.
Small enough to be seen.
We intentionally keep the room at 35 people or fewer so the experience can stay personal, connected, and human.
Connection
Not networking. Not performing. Real people getting real.
Joy
Yes, the work can be deep. It can also be full of laughter.
Being seen
You are not Participant #287 somewhere in the back of a ballroom.
You do not have to understand every part of ReFind You before you are curious about the room.
Sometimes the best next step is simply talking with someone who can answer your questions.
Joey Stone, founder of ReFind You
Why ReFind You exists
I spent years trying to figure out what was wrong with me.
I’ve worn a lot of labels in my life. Army veteran. Husband. Dad. IT leader. Recovering addict. Student of personal development.
And through all of it, I spent years trying to figure out what was wrong with me.
Somewhere along the way, even going to war taught me something I did not expect.
I realized I did not belong in a life built around putting people down. I wanted my life to be about helping people heal from hate, reconnect with themselves, and remember how much they matter.
Books. Therapy. Trainings. Conversations at midnight. I got really good at understanding myself.
I could tell you why I got angry. Why I shut down. Why certain moments could pull an old reaction out of me before I even realized what was happening.
And somehow... knowing all of that did not automatically mean I chose differently when the moment came.
At some point I realized I had spent so much time trying to fix myself that I had forgotten to actually know myself.
That question changed the way I looked at personal development, and eventually became part of why ReFind You exists.
This is not about becoming some polished, perfect version of yourself. It is about creating more room to notice what is happening, choose what comes next, and live more honestly as yourself.
ReFind You is personal development, not therapy. We believe people deserve a place to be honest without being treated like a problem to solve.
What people often notice
Not a new you. More choice in the moments that matter.
ReFind You is not about becoming a different person. It is about noticing what is happening sooner, understanding what is driving it, and creating more room to choose what happens next.
More space before the reaction
The old response may still show up. The difference is noticing it sooner and having more room to decide whether you want to follow it.
More honest relationships
Less guessing. Less performing. More ability to say what is actually happening and stay connected through the conversation.
More ownership, less beating yourself up
Taking responsibility does not have to mean blaming yourself. It can simply mean recognizing where you have choice now.
More connection
With the people you love, with the room around you, and with the parts of yourself that may have been easy to ignore while life stayed busy.
More clarity about what you want
Not what you are supposed to want. Not what keeps everyone else comfortable. A clearer sense of what actually matters to you.
More of yourself in your own life
More joy. More courage. More peace. More honesty. More of the person who is already there when you are not running on automatic.
Your past can explain you. It does not have to choose for you.
That does not mean the past disappears. It means you can create more room for the person you are now to decide what happens next.
The complete ReFind You experience
This is bigger than a weekend.
ReFind You is built as one complete experience. You begin in the room, take the work into real life, come back, and leave with tools, community, and opportunities to keep practicing long after Part 2 ends.
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Part 1
Three immersive days.
This is where you begin noticing the patterns, reactions, stories, and automatic responses that show up in everyday life.
Three full days inside the ReFind You room
Experiential processes instead of another lecture
Real-time coaching, reflection, and feedback
A small room of no more than 35 participants
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Integration
Then you go live your actual life.
The real test is not what happens inside a training room. It is what happens with your spouse, your kids, your work, your family, and the moments that normally pull you right back into an old reaction.
About one month between Part 1 and Part 2
Weekly live group coaching
Real-life practice between sessions
Support while you notice what is working and what is not
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Part 2
You come back with real experience.
After a month of living with what you discovered, you return for three more immersive days. Now you are not working with theory. You have real moments, real wins, and real places where the old patterns still grabbed you.
Three additional immersive days
Deeper practice with what showed up in real life
More awareness of your automatic responses
More space to choose what you actually want next
One experience. Two immersive weekends. Real life in between.
What you leave with
The room ends. The tools go home with you.
ReFind You is not meant to become something you only understood while you were here. You leave with practical ways to notice what is happening and work with it in real life.
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Trigger Map
Recognize what may be happening underneath a reaction before it takes over.
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Working vs. Not Working
Move out of right and wrong long enough to ask whether a response is creating what you actually want.
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Maximum Value
Notice avoidance and get curious about the choice that creates more value instead.
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Feedback & Connection Tools
Practice receiving feedback, staying present, and bringing more honesty into relationships.
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Graduate Community
You do not disappear when Part 2 ends.
Once you complete ReFind You, you become part of a community of people who understand the experience because they have lived it too.
Continued connection with ReFind You graduates
Opportunities to keep practicing what you learned
A community built around honesty, ownership, and connection
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Return & Staff
Come back. Serve. Keep growing.
Graduates can return and staff future ReFind You trainings at no additional cost. You get to experience the room from another perspective, support others, and keep practicing the work yourself.
Future staffing is included.
No additional training fee.
Everything above is included
One experience.
One investment.
Part 1
3 immersive days
Integration
About one month + weekly coaching
Part 2
3 more immersive days
Your Toolkit
Practical tools you keep using
Community
Connection after the experience
Future Staffing
Return at no additional training fee
$2,500
The complete ReFind You experience.
No hidden next level. No required upsell waiting at the finish line.
Ready for your next step?
No pressure. No pitch. Just choose the next step that feels right for you.
When you are ready
See what is coming up next.
You do not need to decide today. But if you are curious, here is the next ReFind You experience and the investment for the complete journey.
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2027 dates coming soon.
We are finalizing the next ReFind You training schedule now. If you want first notice when dates open, talk with Bethany and she can help you plan ahead.
The complete experience
One price. No hidden next level.
$2,500
Includes Part 1, integration coaching, Part 2, and the graduate community.
Pay in Full
3 Monthly Payments
6 Monthly Payments
No added financing fee. The total investment remains $2,500.
Questions first is completely okay. We can walk you through dates, payment options, and whether ReFind You feels like the right fit.
Questions are welcome
Wondering if ReFind You is actually for you?
Good. You should ask questions before stepping into something personal. Here are the ones we hear most often.
No. ReFind You is an immersive personal-development experience. It is not therapy, medical treatment, or a replacement for professional mental-health care.
That is completely okay. You do not need a crisis to come to ReFind You. Many people simply know there is more joy, connection, honesty, courage, or choice they want in their life.
You will not be the only one. Some participants come in already understanding themselves extremely well. ReFind You is experiential, so the focus is not simply learning another explanation for why you are the way you are.
No. You are responsible for your own participation and boundaries. The room is designed to invite honesty and connection, not force disclosure.
Yes. Couples can attend the same ReFind You experience. Each person participates in their own work while also having the opportunity to bring more honesty and choice back into the relationship.
You go back to real life. For about a month, you practice what you are noticing in your actual relationships, choices, and reactions. Weekly group coaching calls support that integration before everyone returns for Part 2.
The complete ReFind You experience includes Part 1, the integration period and weekly coaching calls, Part 2, and access to the graduate community.
There is no required “next level” waiting afterward. Graduates may also return to staff future trainings at no additional cost.
We get it. The call with us is simply a conversation, but if getting on a call feels like too much right now, just text us instead. Ask what you want. Tell us what has you curious. No pressure to move forward.
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Still curious?
Good. Curiosity is enough for the next step.
You do not have to decide anything from a website. Talk with our team. Ask your questions. Tell us what has you thinking about ReFind You, and figure out whether the room actually feels right for you.
No pressure. No pitch. Just a real conversation.
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