Something is still off.
You can feel it.
Your life looks fine from the outside. Decent career. People who love you. Responsibilities you show up for every day.
But there is a version of you underneath all of that who is tired. Tired of the same reactions. The same arguments. The same feeling that no matter what you fix on the outside, something on the inside stays stuck.
You have probably tried to figure it out. Podcasts. Therapy. Books. You got some awareness. But awareness alone has not changed anything.
That is exactly the gap ReFind You was built to close.
You have done the work.
Something is still not shifting.
Most people who attend ReFind You are not falling apart. They are holding it together remarkably well. Career, family, responsibilities. They show up. They get it done. But inside, there is a version of them that is exhausted from all the holding.
- You know your patterns. You can name your triggers. You have read the books and listened to the podcasts. But under pressure, you still react the same way you always have.
- Your relationship looks okay on paper but it feels more like two people managing a household than actually connecting. You love them. But something is closed off and you are not sure how to open it.
- You feel alone even when you are surrounded by people who care about you. You are in the room but not really in the room.
- You are the strong one. The one people lean on. And you are quietly exhausted from never being the one who gets to fall apart.
- Something cracked recently. A relationship on the edge. A success that felt like nothing when it arrived. A moment in the mirror where you did not like who you saw looking back.
- You are not looking for motivation. You are not looking for another framework. You are looking for something that actually works.
Most people are not stuck because they lack information. They are stuck because something deeper is running their reactions and no amount of awareness alone has been able to change it.
You are not even close.
You are carrying patterns that were built a long time ago to help you survive. They worked then. But now those same walls are quietly costing you the connection, the peace, and the freedom you actually want.
That is what we deal with at ReFind You. Not the symptoms. The actual root of it.
I built this because
I needed it first.
My name is Joey. Not Coach Stone. Not the founder of ReFind You. Just Joey. Because that is who shows up in that room. That is who texts people back personally. That is who reads a message from someone who finally feels light and has to pull over.
When I was 12 years old, my dad walked into my classroom and called me an idiot in front of everyone. My teacher agreed. I believed them both for the next 25 years.
I ran away from home at 16 with a mohawk and a drug habit and a desperate need to feel like I mattered to someone. I deployed to Iraq for 15 months and came home with a brain that turned grocery stores into war zones. I hid in my basement while my family lived upstairs.
I hit bottom at 31. Alone. Wanting out.
I did eight years of weekly therapy trying to fix what was broken inside me. EMDR. ART. Parts work. Talk therapy. Everything I could find. And nothing worked. Not the way I needed it to.
Until I walked into a room and did the kind of work that goes all the way to the root. Not the symptoms. Not the coping skills. The actual root.
When those walls finally came down, I found out who I really was underneath all of it.
And I liked him. For the first time in my entire life, I liked him.
I rebuilt trust with my wife, Ashley from absolute zero. I have a masters degree now. I run companies. I became the person my family actually needed instead of the person they were quietly surviving.
And I built ReFind You because I refused to let my pain be wasted.
I show up for every training as Joey. Not a coach. Not a speaker. Just the guy who has been where you are and found a way out that actually works.
This work is personal. That is the whole point.
Two days after we named the company,
the phone rang.
A cousin I had not spoken to in 20 years. She came and sat on my couch and described the most horrific abuse I had ever heard. She said she wanted to die. That she had tried many times.
Then she paused. Moved her arms, kind of shrugging. Looked me in the eyes. And said...
"I just want to... I don't know... re-find myself."
She had no idea that was the exact name of the company I had created two days before.
I said: will you stay alive for just three more days.
She came to the very first ReFind You event.
What I did not know until she stood up in front of the room afterward was that the night before, she had swallowed an entire bottle of pills and an entire bottle of alcohol. And told God that if she woke up, she would go to this training.
She woke up. She came.
And she stood in front of that room a completely different person.
"I want to live."
That is why ReFind You exists.
Not to motivate you. Not to give you tools and tips. But to go all the way to the root of why you keep repeating the same patterns, feeling the same pain, hiding behind the same walls, even when you are doing everything right.
Over 200 people have walked through this work. 98% call it a top 3 life experience. Not because we hype them up. Because something actually shifts.
In their own words.
Unedited.
"Accepting that it hurt so much because it confirmed what I didn't want to believe about myself was hard. Recognizing that someone I cared about didn't care about me, hurt. Realizing I was holding onto it and unwilling to forgive because doing so would mean I had to forgive myself too was tough. Really learning these things, accepting them, and adjusting my beliefs, actions and reactions at your training set me free. It took 25 years of work, and then things finally snapped together. So many shifts."Don
"Since going through, I have started to be honest with myself and others. I wake up and love who I am and who I am becoming. I connect with my wife, my friends, my family, and coworkers more deeply. Life feels full."Logan
"This training did more for me than years in therapy, and the results last. I learned so much about myself and the way I show up in life. The 72 hours I spent here resulted in one of the top 3 experiences of my life."Shawn
"This experience changed and saved my life. No fluff. This will change everything for the better. It changed and deepened every part of my life."Devon
"I woke up with a feeling of self worth that I didn't know existed in me. I have done years of energy work. This was more. I have been charged for showing up for myself."LaPreal
"I blasted through to the bottom floor and out the other side. I can breathe better than I have ever been able to. It was hard. It was painful. It was uncomfortable. But it was worth it. I will never go back there again. I know what I want. I know where I want to go. And I feel so free."Jennifer
"Top 3 best things I have ever done for myself. And I gained a forever friend. Nothing to lose. You will gain tools you thought you could never use and so much more."Tracy
"I have that little girl back in me. Thank you for helping me become who I am today. I am blessed to have had this experience."Shandell
Choose your date.
Then let us talk.
Each training is capped at 30 people. That is not a marketing line. It is how the work actually functions. Every person in that room gets seen, heard, and supported. That requires keeping it small.
What it costs.
Part 1 and Part 2 together. Six total days of work held 30 days apart so you have time to apply what you learn before going deeper. Payment plans are available -- just ask when we talk.
- +Part 1 -- 3-day immersive experience
- +4 weeks of group coaching after Part 1
- +Part 2 -- 3-day deeper experience
- +Lifelong community and staffing opportunities
- +Immediate confirmation of your spot
- +Payment plan options at checkout
- +Full details sent within 24 hours
- +Questions? We will reach out personally
You already know
if this is for you.
The person who reads every word of a page like this and still has not clicked is not unconvinced. They are scared. And that makes complete sense.
Because what you are considering is not a purchase. It is a decision to stop pretending that what you have been doing is working. That is a big thing to admit, even to yourself.
You do not have to be ready. You do not have to have it figured out. You just have to be at the point where you are done pretending.
One conversation. That is all this is. Not a sales call. Not a pitch. Just a real talk to see if this is the right fit for where you are right now.
If it is not the right fit, we will tell you. Honestly. That is how we do things.
Schedule a call with Joey or Megan.
Real conversation. No script. No pressure. Just a chance to talk about where you are and whether ReFind You is the right next step for you.